Myth Busting: The Biggest Lies People Tell You About Wedding Planning
Wedding planning can feel like an overwhelming task, and when you add in unsolicited advice from friends, family, and even strangers, it can get downright confusing. Whether it’s advice about budgets, traditions, or how to handle your emotions, there’s a lot of misinformation floating around. We’re busting the biggest lies people tell you about wedding planning, so you can make informed choices and enjoy your journey to the big day!
Myth: You Have to Stick to Traditional Wedding Norms
Busted: You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do!
One of the most pervasive myths in wedding planning is that you have to stick to certain traditions—like having a formal sit-down dinner, tossing the bouquet, or even wearing a white dress. While some couples are drawn to these customs, it’s completely okay to break free from them. Your wedding should reflect you and your partner, not someone else’s idea of “how it’s supposed to be.
So if a more relaxed or unconventional wedding is your vibe—go for it! You can celebrate love your way, whether it’s with a destination wedding, a backyard ceremony, or skipping the bouquet toss altogether.
Myth: Your Wedding Must Be Expensive to Be Beautiful.
Busted: Stunning weddings can come in all price ranges.
It’s easy to get caught up in the idea that you need a huge budget to create the wedding of your dreams. But the truth is, an amazing wedding doesn’t have to break the bank. In fact, some of the most memorable and beautiful weddings are the ones where the couple gets creative with their budget.
DIY décor, shopping for pre-loved items, and opting for an intimate gathering are just a few ways to keep costs low while still having a wedding that feels luxurious. Remember, it’s not about how much you spend—it’s about the love, the personal touches, and the memories you create.
Myth: You Have to Invite Everyone You Know
Busted: It’s YOUR guest list—don’t feel obligated to invite everyone.
One of the most common pieces of advice couples hear is that they need to invite everyone—even distant relatives or old friends they haven’t spoken to in years. However, this myth often leads to unnecessary stress and an overwhelming guest list.
Many people assume that the size of the celebration is what defines its success. While a grand wedding with hundreds of guests can be wonderful for some, a smaller, more intimate wedding can be just as meaningful—and in some ways, more special.
The truth is, your wedding guest list should consist of the people who truly matter to you and your partner. A smaller, more intimate wedding can actually lead to a more meaningful and memorable experience, both for you and your guests. It’s your big day—don’t feel pressured into inviting anyone who doesn’t make the cut.
Myth: Your Registry Has to Be for Housewares
Busted: Your registry can be as flexible as you want it to be!
One of the biggest myths about wedding registries is that they have to be filled with traditional items like kitchen gadgets, linens, or home decor. While those can be great for some couples, they’re far from the only option. Many modern couples already have fully stocked kitchens or prefer to focus on experiences over material things.
That’s where Honeyfund comes in! With Honeyfund, your registry can be tailored to your unique priorities, whether it’s funding an unforgettable honeymoon, saving for a new home, or even kickstarting a dream project together. It’s all about creating a registry that reflects your life and your goals as a couple—because there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to building your future together.
Myth: Your Wedding Day Has to Be Perfect
Busted: Perfection doesn’t exist—and that’s okay!
It’s easy to get caught up in the pressure of making every detail of your wedding perfect. The perfect dress, the perfect cake, the perfect flowers—the list goes on. But the truth is, no wedding is ever truly perfect. There will be hiccups, unexpected moments, and probably a few things that don’t go exactly as planned.
And you know what? That’s okay! It’s the imperfections that make the day truly special and memorable. What matters most is the love and joy you share with your partner and guests. So let go of the idea of perfection and embrace the beautiful, messy journey.
Myth: You Need at Least a Year to Plan a Wedding
Busted: The timeline is completely up to you.
There’s no rule that says you have to be engaged for a year before getting married. While some couples enjoy a longer engagement to give them time to plan, others may prefer to keep it short and sweet. The reality is that your engagement period should reflect your own preferences and timeline.
Want to get married quickly after your proposal? Go for it! Prefer a longer engagement to enjoy being newly engaged? That’s great too! There’s no “correct” amount of time between getting engaged and tying the knot. It’s your decision, and it should feel right for both of you. And if you’re looking for a guide no matter what your timeline, check out our three month, six month, or twelve month plans!
Myth: You Have to Have a Big Bridal Party
Busted: A smaller bridal party (or none at all) is totally okay!
A large bridal party can be fun, but it’s definitely not a necessity. Some couples prefer a more intimate or laid-back vibe and choose to have a smaller bridal party, or even none at all. You can still have a meaningful ceremony with just your closest friends and family as witnesses.
If a small wedding party suits your style, go for it. Your wedding day should reflect what makes you both happiest—no need to conform to expectations.
Myth: You Won’t Have Time or Money for Your Honeymoon
Busted: Make time for your honeymoon—it’s part of the celebration!
Many couples mistakenly think that after the whirlwind of wedding planning, they’ll be too exhausted or busy to take a honeymoon. However, it’s important to make time for that getaway with your partner. Your honeymoon is a special time to relax, reconnect, and celebrate your new life together.
Whether you plan a weeklong beach vacation or a quick weekend escape, prioritize your honeymoon as part of the celebration. Also more and more couples are opting for domestic locations over international ones. And if you’re tight on cash, let your friends and family help by contributing your Honeyfund—trust us, you deserve it!
Wedding planning doesn’t have to be full of myths and misconceptions. By cutting through the noise and focusing on what truly matters—your love and your unique vision for the day—you’ll be able to enjoy every moment of your wedding journey. Remember, your wedding is about celebrating your relationship, so make it as unique and personal as you want. There’s no “right” way to do it—just your way. Happy planning!
This post was co-authored by ChatGPT.
